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PICTURES: Held In Our Hearts charity set to use support from hotels to reach out to more bereaved parents after official Highland launch


By Alasdair Fraser

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Victoria Erasmus, co-owner of the Glen Mhor Hotel; the charity's Marina Huggett; Nicola Welsh, CEO; and care supporter Lindsay Donaldson. Picture: Callum Mackay
Victoria Erasmus, co-owner of the Glen Mhor Hotel; the charity's Marina Huggett; Nicola Welsh, CEO; and care supporter Lindsay Donaldson. Picture: Callum Mackay

A baby loss, counselling and support charity’s official Highland launch in Inverness heard how it plans to work with hotels to help reach out to more bereaved parents.

Held In Our Hearts has already been supported by the Glen Mhor Hotel in Inverness and the Crerar group of hotels to expand support into the Highlands.

NHS Highland now refers grieving parents seeking support directly to the charity for peer counselling.

The recent launch at the Glen Mhor by the River Ness was attended by more than 60 people, with parents among them highlighting just how important the counselling service has been.

Nicola Welsh, chief executive of Held In Our Hearts (centre), with some of the attendees. Picture: Callum Mackay
Nicola Welsh, chief executive of Held In Our Hearts (centre), with some of the attendees. Picture: Callum Mackay
The Held in Our Hearts logo. Picture: Callum Mackay
The Held in Our Hearts logo. Picture: Callum Mackay

The charity’s chief executive Nicola Welsh was delighted with how the launch went.

She said: “We had a mixture of health professionals, businesses and actually quite a number of families, including those who have been supported up to this point.

“There were good discussions with parents contributing a lot by giving an insight into what their care felt like.

Another of the guests, deep in thought. Picture: Callum Mackay
Another of the guests, deep in thought. Picture: Callum Mackay
There were valuable discussions on the charity's expansion. Picture: Callum Mackay.
There were valuable discussions on the charity's expansion. Picture: Callum Mackay.

“It was encouraging to hear praise of the peer support counsellors and the feeling was that without them they would have been on their own.

“It probably just cemented the relationships we have been building. The head of midwifery within NHS Highland was there and there will be a follow-up meeting arising from those discussions.

“We had delayed the launch from earlier in the year and that delay actually gave it the weight and authenticity that we’d hoped for.

Marina Huggett with one of the guests. Picture: Callum Mackay.
Marina Huggett with one of the guests. Picture: Callum Mackay.
Marina Huggett. Picture: Callum Mackay
Marina Huggett. Picture: Callum Mackay
Tea and cakes were served at the afternoon launch. Picture: Callum Mackay
Tea and cakes were served at the afternoon launch. Picture: Callum Mackay

“The priority for us now is to make sure that every health professional is aware of what we can offer and for us to continue to develop our hybrid way of working.”

The Glen Mhor Hotel provides space in its new Indigo Room for a counsellor to meet parents in privacy.

In February, the Crerar Trust donated £7500 towards an expansion of the charity’s services in the Highlands.

Cllr Jackie Hendry, the depute provost of Inverness and area, and the charity's Marina Huggett. Picture: Callum Mackay
Cllr Jackie Hendry, the depute provost of Inverness and area, and the charity's Marina Huggett. Picture: Callum Mackay
Cakes and treats. Picture: Callum Mackay
Cakes and treats. Picture: Callum Mackay

The CEO added: “We had a discussion around what we could do if there was a really distressed family who were looking to speak to somebody.

“As much as it wouldn’t become standard practice, we can look to use a hotel premises in whatever location is near to them to meet the family at a time when the trauma of loss can make it difficult to organise for travel and transport.

More than 60 people attended the launch in Inverness. Picture: Callum Mackay
More than 60 people attended the launch in Inverness. Picture: Callum Mackay
There was plenty of information and idea sharing at the event. Picture: Callum Mackay
There was plenty of information and idea sharing at the event. Picture: Callum Mackay
Refreshments at the launch. Picture: Callum Mackay
Refreshments at the launch. Picture: Callum Mackay

“By developing relationships with hotels, not only do we raise awareness further but we reach out to families who can meet somewhere that feels safe to them.

The Highland charity launch. Picture: Callum Mackay
The Highland charity launch. Picture: Callum Mackay

“Our whole ethos recognises that every community is different and every time we expand into a health board area, it is about working with the community to learn what their needs are.

“It won’t be the same for everywhere and a model that works in Lothian might not work for another community in the Highlands.”


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