An Inverness family has backed the CHAS Cost of Living Crisis Care Appeal and is urging Scots to support families struggling to make ends meet
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CHILDREN’S Hospices Across Scotland, better known as CHAS, has launched their Cost of Living Crisis Care Appeal, urging Scots to help dying children and their families severely impacted by the cost of living crisis.
As well as providing round-the-clock care for their vulnerable children, many families supported by CHAS are feeling the devastating effect of rising costs and are struggling to make ends meet.
The charity is working hard to offer vital support to families facing financial hardship nationwide through its innovative Family Income Maximisation Service which provides crucial advice for families who may be forced out of work to care for their children, or who are struggling to afford regular hospital transport or suffering from food poverty.
Laura Wingate and Marcus Dicks from Inverness were assisted by CHAS after their second son Theodore was born just as the pandemic hit in March 2020.
Marcus found himself unemployed while caring for Theodore who was born with chronic lung disease, brain damage and a range of other complex care needs.
He said: “I was due to sit my bus driver’s licence test but due to lockdown this was not possible and they couldn’t put me on furlough because I started after the cut-off date. When I lost my job, sorting out benefits while sitting in hospital with Theodore was so stressful. CHAS helping us with our finances has made a real difference to our lives.”
Laura said: “It’s definitely helped massively, having someone there to give us a hand and make sure we’re getting what we’re entitled to and help with things we couldn’t really do before.”
Theodore, whose twin sadly died before birth, had to be delivered early at Raigmore Hospital in Inverness on March 8, 2020 at 31 weeks.
Laura added: “When Theodore was born I didn’t even get to hold him. He couldn’t breathe. Doctors took him away to ventilate him using a method that had never been used on a baby so small. It saved his life, but that was just the start of our fight.”
The tiny baby was treated at the Queen Elizabeth Hospital in Glasgow where he remained for five months before returning to hospital in Inverness where he finally got to meet his big brother Isaac, now five.
Theodore, now two, is wheelchair-bound, ventilated and tube-fed therefore needs 24/7 care.
Marcus said: “Nurses watch Theodore overnight so we can sleep but if they can’t make it we need to stay awake by his side in case he stops breathing. We’ve been his round-the-clock carers for a year now and we live in fear of the day we can’t resuscitate him.”
Thankfully, the family get some respite at Robin House hospice in Balloch near Alexandria.
“Going there for the first time felt like a breath of fresh air. It was so pleasant to be away from home with Theodore and Isaac for longer than a few hours and not have the responsibility of housework and school life.
"Being able to go and have a shower without having to worry about who would look after Theodore and just having a taste of what normal family life is like was wonderful."
Laura added: “The support CHAS has given us literally has made our lives so much easier. We can’t thank them and the supporters who donate money to the charity enough.”
CHAS family income maximisation officer, Monica Currie said: “The cost of living crisis has resulted in many of the families we support facing some of the worst financial difficulties they have ever experienced. Sometimes families are forced out of work to care for their children around the clock.
“Many don’t have a choice in whether or not they can turn the heating off as their home needs to be a set temperature for their child’s comfort. In order to maintain their child’s health, complex and various machines and equipment are required to be on 24/7. This has huge implications on their utility bills, even more so during the cost of living crisis."
To donate to CHAS’s Cost of Living Crisis Care Appeal visit https://www.chas.org.uk/donate
Over the past three years, Family Income Maximisation Service has helped more than 300 families, helping to unlock nearly £400,000 in much needed funds.
